Comments on: How to Find The Guy or Girl of Your Dreams http://www.zencollegelife.com/2009/03/20/how-to-find-the-guy-orgirl-of-your-dreams/ Your College Life. Upgraded. Mon, 15 Mar 2010 17:00:04 -0400 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Edward http://www.zencollegelife.com/2009/03/20/how-to-find-the-guy-orgirl-of-your-dreams/comment-page-1/#comment-4721 Edward Sun, 07 Mar 2010 23:34:01 +0000 http://www.zencollegelife.com/?p=1018#comment-4721 I gotta say, I'm glad I did find this blog ^_^. Even after a year, these tips are still completely solid knowledge, and completely revised my prior thoughts on finding that special person on campus! I gotta say, I’m glad I did find this blog ^_^. Even after a year, these tips are still completely solid knowledge, and completely revised my prior thoughts on finding that special person on campus!

]]> By: sarah http://www.zencollegelife.com/2009/03/20/how-to-find-the-guy-orgirl-of-your-dreams/comment-page-1/#comment-4707 sarah Tue, 02 Mar 2010 05:43:00 +0000 http://www.zencollegelife.com/?p=1018#comment-4707 Okay so i understand and agree with almost everything you say.. of course i do have my differances about some things but that only makes me human. If you dont mind me asking but what made you deside to write this?.. It a good outlook but i think that its alot more complacted then you put off to be... maybe i just think so because im not really looking for the right guy...im worried about my education frist but i think even with all that you forgot one thing... cuz lets be honest you can get all that with your best friend.. the most important part...... love .....you no that unforgetting feeling about the person...the kind that after a big fight makes you feel dumb and you just want to make up..or the feeling you get when there gone and all you want to do is see them because you know deep down ull never find that again... and you cant say its not real because ive seen it! But other then that i really did like your outlook on it. Okay so i understand and agree with almost everything you say.. of course i do have my differances about some things but that only makes me human. If you dont mind me asking but what made you deside to write this?.. It a good outlook but i think that its alot more complacted then you put off to be… maybe i just think so because im not really looking for the right guy…im worried about my education frist but i think even with all that you forgot one thing… cuz lets be honest you can get all that with your best friend.. the most important part…… love …..you no that unforgetting feeling about the person…the kind that after a big fight makes you feel dumb and you just want to make up..or the feeling you get when there gone and all you want to do is see them because you know deep down ull never find that again… and you cant say its not real because ive seen it! But other then that i really did like your outlook on it.

]]> By: dave http://www.zencollegelife.com/2009/03/20/how-to-find-the-guy-orgirl-of-your-dreams/comment-page-1/#comment-4675 dave Thu, 28 Jan 2010 14:57:47 +0000 http://www.zencollegelife.com/?p=1018#comment-4675 Gay! Just bonk her on the head and drag her home. Gay! Just bonk her on the head and drag her home.

]]> By: Todd http://www.zencollegelife.com/2009/03/20/how-to-find-the-guy-orgirl-of-your-dreams/comment-page-1/#comment-3704 Todd Thu, 16 Apr 2009 05:18:47 +0000 http://www.zencollegelife.com/?p=1018#comment-3704 PS I love the tip “Go Where Ms. Perfect will be” ----> My Dad always says you’re not going to catch a trophy Bass fishing in a polluted pond! YOU have to GO fishing where the good fish are. Also, you’re not going to catch any fish unless your line in the water. PS I love the tip “Go Where Ms. Perfect will be” —-> My Dad always says you’re not going to catch a trophy Bass fishing in a polluted pond! YOU have to GO fishing where the good fish are. Also, you’re not going to catch any fish unless your line in the water.

]]> By: Todd http://www.zencollegelife.com/2009/03/20/how-to-find-the-guy-orgirl-of-your-dreams/comment-page-1/#comment-3703 Todd Thu, 16 Apr 2009 05:09:10 +0000 http://www.zencollegelife.com/?p=1018#comment-3703 Ibrahim: This is very well written! I will be sending many of my friends hear to read it. Thank you for taking the time to write this. It reminds me of Dale Carnegie’s teachings. :) I love how concise yet informative it is. You seem to have a very well thought outlook on life, would you recommend any books that have helped you develop these thoughts. Or really just any books for self-development/life in general that you have though worth reading. I am an entrepreneur who loves to learn… the more the better. Thanks again, Todd Ibrahim:
This is very well written! I will be sending many of my friends hear to read it. Thank you for taking the time to write this. It reminds me of Dale Carnegie’s teachings. :) I love how concise yet informative it is. You seem to have a very well thought outlook on life, would you recommend any books that have helped you develop these thoughts. Or really just any books for self-development/life in general that you have though worth reading. I am an entrepreneur who loves to learn… the more the better.
Thanks again,
Todd

]]> By: Fouad http://www.zencollegelife.com/2009/03/20/how-to-find-the-guy-orgirl-of-your-dreams/comment-page-1/#comment-3404 Fouad Fri, 03 Apr 2009 14:55:03 +0000 http://www.zencollegelife.com/?p=1018#comment-3404 Nice tips. ;-) Thank you. I'll try not to be "Too available" anymore! Nice tips. ;-) Thank you.
I’ll try not to be “Too available” anymore!

]]> By: Tori http://www.zencollegelife.com/2009/03/20/how-to-find-the-guy-orgirl-of-your-dreams/comment-page-1/#comment-3369 Tori Thu, 02 Apr 2009 20:17:07 +0000 http://www.zencollegelife.com/?p=1018#comment-3369 This is an awesome blog. I too stumble'd this. I recently got married and my relationship is awesome with my husband. All the time I am asked for advice about what we do to keep things smooth. From now on I will refer to this blog to help with the explaining! :mrgreen: Thanks Ibrahim This is an awesome blog. I too stumble’d this. I recently got married and my relationship is awesome with my husband. All the time I am asked for advice about what we do to keep things smooth. From now on I will refer to this blog to help with the explaining! :mrgreen:

Thanks Ibrahim

]]> By: Ibrahim http://www.zencollegelife.com/2009/03/20/how-to-find-the-guy-orgirl-of-your-dreams/comment-page-1/#comment-3352 Ibrahim Thu, 02 Apr 2009 00:56:01 +0000 http://www.zencollegelife.com/?p=1018#comment-3352 Thanks for the Stumble Alison, and I'm glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for the Stumble Alison, and I’m glad you enjoyed it!

]]> By: Alison http://www.zencollegelife.com/2009/03/20/how-to-find-the-guy-orgirl-of-your-dreams/comment-page-1/#comment-3350 Alison Wed, 01 Apr 2009 23:20:37 +0000 http://www.zencollegelife.com/?p=1018#comment-3350 This is a great post! I also stumbled on it, and I'm glad I did. I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now, much to the shock of all my friends and even myself. He's not exactely "relationship material." After reading this article I realize that we both have so many of these characteristics, I guess that's why we sync up so well. Very insightful article, thanks! This is a great post! I also stumbled on it, and I’m glad I did. I’ve been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now, much to the shock of all my friends and even myself. He’s not exactely “relationship material.” After reading this article I realize that we both have so many of these characteristics, I guess that’s why we sync up so well.
Very insightful article, thanks!

]]> By: Ibrahim http://www.zencollegelife.com/2009/03/20/how-to-find-the-guy-orgirl-of-your-dreams/comment-page-1/#comment-3328 Ibrahim Tue, 31 Mar 2009 22:48:13 +0000 http://www.zencollegelife.com/?p=1018#comment-3328 uknowuluvit and Kate1218, thanks for your comments. I sometimes wonder if my writing is really getting through. It's easy to read a blog. It's harder to read a blog, comprehend its meaning, and decide if it is worth changing yourself for. I'm glad to see that you guys get it. Doing the things that I have outlined here isn't about ways to "trick" someone into liking you. It's about working on yourself so that you increase the ability to be liked. I'm sure many of us have great personalities. But at the end of the day, a great personality sometimes isn't enough. I'm sorry if this takes some of the sparkle away from falling in love and thinking that the other person will automatically love you for you. But sometimes we need to work on ourselves so that the other person can even get a chance to fall in love with us. uknowuluvit and Kate1218, thanks for your comments. I sometimes wonder if my writing is really getting through. It’s easy to read a blog. It’s harder to read a blog, comprehend its meaning, and decide if it is worth changing yourself for. I’m glad to see that you guys get it.

Doing the things that I have outlined here isn’t about ways to “trick” someone into liking you. It’s about working on yourself so that you increase the ability to be liked. I’m sure many of us have great personalities. But at the end of the day, a great personality sometimes isn’t enough.

I’m sorry if this takes some of the sparkle away from falling in love and thinking that the other person will automatically love you for you. But sometimes we need to work on ourselves so that the other person can even get a chance to fall in love with us.

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